1:1 Coaching
What can you expect from my coaching?
Through Cassandra Uncaged, I offer Christian coaching for wives navigating neurodiverse marriages. I will guide you to heal and thrive in your neurodiverse relationships.
I will champion you to find your way back onto the path of your story to help you answer, ‘Who am I in my origin?’ That is no small task when you are sharing life with a husband who is mindblind to your emotional needs and there is no reciprocity.
You are exhausted from the task of executive over-functioning for your family - feeling alone, while appearing to be together…seemingly co-laboring with your husband, but the reality is that you function as a solo. You have lost the main path of YOU. You have scattered parts of you that need to be integrated back together into wholeness. Healthy individuals make up healthy institutions. Your life matters. You are valuable.
Let’s rewire your neuropathways for you to be the incredible one and only you that the world needs.
Right now,
I ask you one question.
Are you ready to say:
‘I don’t have to live this way anymore.’?
‘Whom the Son sets free is free indeed.’ John 8:36
What does freedom feel like?!
It feels like the opposite of being stuck in a pattern of thinking that has developed into neurodiverse habits.
It feels like taking off a heavy yoke so you can soar!
Is it possible to live happily ever after in neurodiversity?
Wrong question!
Let’s focus on, ‘Is it possible for YOU to be FREE - no matter what…?’
Now that’s a heavy question.
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You were made for freedom. God loves you and as your Heavenly Father, He desires for you to live freely and fully alive as the amazing daughter that He created. You have the power of choice to step into freedom, and trust Him to be with you every step of the way.
I have been in your shoes, on the neurodiverse journey, and I’ve come out victoriously, and God has revealed to me a way to maintain a lifestyle of soul freedom.
My old patterns of thinking included:
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Hopelessness
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Loneliness
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Insignificance
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Overwhelmed
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Fearful
Everything began to change in 2017, as God brought truth into my life through various voices, and I began a deep intimate journey with understanding who I am to the One who made me, knows me best, and loves me the most, and I fell very in love with Jesus, even though I had (years back) experienced salvation at age 13.
God had my full attention in 2017; 32 years into a neurodiverse marriage, surveying the mess I was in. I had become ‘the crumpled woman in the corner’. I made the decision that ‘I didn’t want to live this way anymore.’
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I learned that not only is it possible to change the way I thought, I learned how to shift my thought patterns, and how our amazing brains have neuroplasticity that can adapt and grow new neuropathways; new patterns of thinking means a new mindset, with new positive outcomes, and new outcomes means true freedom!
I will meet you right where you’re at.
I will help you develop new patterns of thinking to make you a powerful person in charge of your responses, effectively communicating and advocating for yourself within neurodiversity, with respectful boundaries,
developing connections where you can, choosing love over fear.
I will show you how to CARE FOR YOUR SOUL, and HEAL YOUR HEART. Together, we will find your origin story, center yourself…gather the scatter and bring you into wholeness so that you can be who you were designed to be.
This can become a steady LIFESTYLE of living from Truth and rejecting lies.
The weight on your chest does not belong there.
You get to be FREE!
My proven, effective method of FLT (Facts, Lies, and Truth) can be your new good habit!
Utilizing the FLT (Facts, Lies, Truth) journaling method, I guide clients through self-discovery and freedom in their marriages.
I would love to share with you this easy journaling method that I developed in 2021, which has become a treasure not only for me, but also for many other women that I have had the opportunity to teach the method to. Once it becomes a habit, you can use it in your journal, on the back of a napkin, or in your thoughts as you lay awake at 3am! It works, and it will keep you present in your story, clear of lies, and full of Truth! Medicine for a healthy soul!
I would be honored to be your sherpa shepherdess and lead you out of your mountain valleys, into green pastures.
If you give me the honor of journeying next to you as your sherpa shepherdess in your rocky, neurodiverse mountain pathways, I will lead you to green pastures that nourish your soul to have the courage to change the way you think. I will help you soar - to be all that you were made to be. Step back into your story of origin!
God authored a beautiful story of YOU, and He is waiting for you to choose the path back to your origin, where there is freedom. He wants to add beautiful chapters for you to finish your story with courage, dignity and strength! The world is waiting for whole, healthy, YOU!
